2010-07-19 - 10:40 p.m.
Love, over a period of years, is so strange. I guess it is only as strange as identity over a period of years. But you start out falling in love with someone because they are a certain way and because you are a certain way and then the years go on and you become a different person and so does the person you love. And your love, if it has remained constant is still this thing that connects the two of you only the two of you are not the same beings who were originally being connected. The love changes too. It's like an equation with constantly-changing variables that still keeps being a true equation.
I don't really have a point in saying all of this, other than it is strange. So many people spend so much time/effort to find a person who fits them in a particular moment in time, but all the while they are changing and so is the person they've searching for/find/found. It is just by chance that there is a match-up at the time of meeting. And yet, from that moment of chance can grow a whole lifetime of love and connection.
